New eye on life...

"Never judge a book by it's cover." ~ Strong meaningful words that I didn't truly understand until now.

It was my third day at labor ready and I must say... I think I lied about the company. When I described what I will be doing I made it to believe that I'm just going to put people to work. This is true to a sense. However I'd like to change the job description... What Labor Ready does is, gives people second chances!

I have met some really interesting people. My job doesn't really consist of much paper work so I fill my 8 hours of the day just listening. Everyone has a story, reason, and goal for being a temp employee for labor ready. (If you remember a few blogs back I said we put people who don't have full time jobs to work. Most are homeless, have bad pasts, or are getting off of their addiction) They are trying to get them selves back on their feet, have enough money for a hotel room for a night, or just eat. I've only known these people for 3 days, and so many have already touched my heart and make me look at life a little differently. I would like to share a storie with you about a worker who has touched me.

EMPLOYEE 1- He's in his late 30's, very well spoken and polite. He use to be a manager for Microsoft, until he got into some trouble with drugs and was let go. He sold everything he owns just to pay for a high. He has been employeed with Labor Ready for a couple years. He says if it wasn't for them he might not be alive. The company gave him encouragement and a way to make money, and he's been clean for over a year. He works for Labor Ready 3-4 times a week. On the other days of the week he volunteers for a company that fixs computers and ships the computers over seas for " the less fortunate countrys" and the military men at war." Yesterday we sent him on a 12 hour job and he got paid the same day. Today he comes into Labor Ready and we prepaired him for another day of dutie. As we were about ready to hand him his slip, to our suprise, he asked if there was a way he could get a little cash advance and would pay it back at the end of the day. Now, bescause we knew for a fact he had recieved a check the day before, and with his past we wondered why he was asking for a few dollars. After poping the question he proceded to tell us he needed money to eat because he hadn't eaten since Friday. My heart instantly went out to him and I gave him the change out of the bottom of my purse, which was only 2 dollars. He left for work and came back 8 hours later to get paid. After cutting him a check, he reaced for his wallet. It was VERY old there were no cards, cash, just a few pieces of paper. He pulled out 6 folded up pieces and proceded to unfold them. He picked them up and passes them my way. I looked at the top one and noticed it was a check, our check for the previous day. He asked me if I could add them. As I flipped through I realized they were all checks, ranging from 24-73 dollars. I added them and gave him a grand total of $307.00. "why had he not cashed them, I asked myself." So I asked him why. He told me he "didn't want to cash them because he knew he would spend them and the money was for something special." Again out of curiosity I asked why? "Well you see, I need $350.00. I'm going to best buy in a few days to by a laptop. I'm working on a special progect through (the company he is voluntering for-I don't remember the name) and it requires a better looking laptop and we only have really old ones there. So I decided I was going to buy one so we can fufill the desire of the less fortunate person we're building it for." Here is a man who has nothing! No food, no house, only 3 pieces of clothing, and does hard work almost every day, and he's giving his hard earned money away to a stranger. WOW!!! There are only a few people out there who are really genuine!

There are a few people there who have stories like his, I just need to listen. Working for this company makes me so thankful for what I have! You can never really tell why someone might be a certain why, until you walk a day in their shoes. I look at people and situations in a different way now. If I could give anyone some advice I would say Listen, Give chances, and DON'T judge!

I will be sharing more stories as they come and I hope you will enjoy them and get the same message I did.

True Friend!

Tomorrow is my last day at Bickford. I am so nervous! Everyone has asked me if I was excited or ready for the change. Honestly... I'm not, but I am! I am so scared. I have never done anything like this before. I am more then willing to put forth the effort though, just scared. I have a really good friend that recommended me, I can't thank him enough!!!! Michael Marion, for him to stand behind me makes me feel honored. He is my best friends husband, dedicated father, and true leader. I'm not sure about the conversations that him and my "soon to be boss" have had about me, but obviously he saw something in me that my own boss didn't. And thats dedication. I "sold" myself to Kelley Hutchinson to get the Labor Ready position and he saw what Mike saw. Now I have to not only talk the talk, but walk the walk.
I know that I can do ANYTHING I put my mind to! I'm not one to give up but like I said, I'm scared. After today, it really hit me. I'm going to miss the girl talks, and the relationships I gained. Giggling with Tamera, and joking around was really hard for me. I am trully going to miss that! I have gained a really good friend and I don't want to lose that! But I have to think about my future and what's best for me. After talking with Ms. X today... I became aware how she was betrade by her "bestfriend". ~What a bestfriend she had. And I don't want to be like Ms. X. I know that I would never betray my friends and neither would they, I just don't want to lose what I have! It is so special to have a person who will listen to you about your problems, connect with, and just be TRUTHFUL!! ~Take a hint, this is true friendship! I know that I will not lose my friends, and I may gain new ones, but I just cherish what I have! SAD.... Yeah... I'm not going to be able to stay away for long!!! Monday after work I'll be back, I can't stay away from my friends! I can't wait for tomorrow!!!

I'm not sure when it happened
But I'm very glad it did
You came into my life when
I really needed a friend

The more I get to know you
The more I know myself
And this is why I'm thankful
For you are just yourself

You and I are different
And in many ways the same
Your good ear, compassionate heart
Will always find you fame

I promise to always be here
Forever and to the end
You are the true definition of
My Very Best Friend!
~Thank you Tamera!!!